I came to see that the core of all my problems was my sense of inadequacy . . . At that time I didn’t understand shame . . . in my grandiosity I was either superhuman (exceptional) or inhuman (wormlike.) I was never first human. If I tried to be more than human (shameless) I would end up less than human (shame-full)… To be shameless…
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My purpose on earth is to help in the project of UNDERSTANDING FEELINGS. What are they anyway? Are they aliens? Are we infected? I’m a scientist in the word lab. My address is: Pretty Baby Life-raft, The Sea.
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Leave a Comment“30 seconds after you’re born you have a past.
And 60 seconds after that you start to lie to yourself about it.”
–Mom in horror film who’s about to get wacked
The Bible is maybe the most generic and unfocused self-help tool around. At the very least, it’s out of date.
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Reading is first and foremost non-reading.
There’s time. And then there isn’t.
Kill Bill: Vol. 3
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I don’t know how much of the evil in the world I should blame myself for. Blame leads to shame, which is a non-doing state of mind.
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Sometimes one partner chases, and the other is distant and avoidant. Other times the partners continually switch roles, in a cycle of come-here-go-away which is excruciating for both.
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I’m not so into Jesus as a sufferer. I’m into him as a love teacher. That’s what he did.
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“Evil was defined as the use of power to destroy the spiritual growth of others for the purpose of defending and preserving the integrity of their own sick selves.”
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“Man’s lack of power to moderate and restrain the affects (emotions) I call Bondage.”
–Spinoza
